Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Thai Girls dating : A Thai girl is giving her opinion !

Thai Girls dating is becoming very popular !


1. Western guys don't have access to the same type of woman that Thai man have.

This was I think quite true until 10 years ago. But especially with advent of internet many decent girls (I don't like the word good girl, sounds as if we are little kiddies) now find it very easy to "meet" people from other countries. Many use apps like msg, email, Asian girls dating sites etc. This doesn't mean that all the girls online are decent but big proportion is.

2. For me it was like this: until 10 years ago I never thought about meeting and marrying farang men. My future would be marrying a Thai. Then I discovered internet and chatting etc. I soon met farang guys on the net and when I got to know some of them better I found out they really are different from Thai guys. More about that later.

The reason I started chatting and emailing with the farang was that I wanted to improve my English. I thought it a fun and good way to get better in English.
When I got to know some farang guys a bit better (through email and chat) I found out that I could talk about everything with these guys.

This was big change for me who was only used to talking to Thai guys. Thai or most Thai guys still have traditional view towards girls. Girls are a commodity for them and are below them. It is very hard to talk to (most) Thai guys about everything. Most are not really open and will hide/not talk about certain things with girls. I found the farang guys very open, liberal, it was really a difference.
A few years later I met my husband on the net, and the rest is history.

2. Thai girls are conservative by nature.

This is true and not true. The true part is that a decent girl will not be easy to get, not for farang and not for a Thai guy. But this doesn't mean that we will never choose a farang. If a farang guy is nice, polite and understanding of us, we might prefer the farang over a Thai guy.

Why do many decent Thai girls still choose a Thai guy?

This is because we are a little bit lazy. Most Thai girls like the easy way, and the easy way is marrying a Thai guy. The Thai guy knows our language, culture, etc. And also he is not likely to take us to another country. Also our family will not (or most of the time not) have problems with it.
When we marry a farang guy, we have to do a big effort to make it succeed, all decent Thai girls know that. And maybe we will have to go to his country, which we don't need to cos we have our own money, career, family etc. It's a big sacrifice.

3. It's almost pointless for farang to be handsome in Thailand

Farangs never have access to the same kind of girls that Thai guys have. It doesn't matter if farang is smelly, fat and old or if he's young and very handsome, every farang fishes from the same pond. Further he states that farang always date non-typical Thai girls meaning only poor Isaan girls who are dark etc.

This statement is sure not true. Even though I said previously that many (nice) Thai girls don't date farang, cos they choose the easy way so to say, it still happens very often (and more often in recent years) that also Thai girls from middle or high class background are actually considering or already dating western guys.

Now about farang being young and handsome in Thailand. I can guarantee that many if not most what calls "typical Thai girl" or nice girls if they see a young and handsome farang would like him to become her boyfriend. If that happens depends on her (not lazy, wanna make an effort etc) and on him. (polite, friendly looking, not shy etc) On the other hand, if a nice girl sees an old and smelly farang, of course she would not dream of him to become her boyfriend, I think that is normal.
So it's not pointless for a farang to be young and handsome in Thailand he will have many changes to date nice Thai girls but he has to look for them not in the bars but in the good places.

One other thing. It can still be hard for a young farang to find a nice girl in Thailand when he's alone, because many Thai girls are shy and traditional when it comes to western men. They also don't tend to trust the farang guy very easily. If however the farang has nice and good Thai male friends also from the higher middle class or middle class, they can introduce him to the nice girls.

If those Thai male friends are honest and good, the farang doesn't has to be too afraid that they will introduce him to bad girls cos the Thai guy would lose terrible face if something bad happened to the farang because of the girl. Of course it can still happen not every Thai guy knows his female friends 100% but it is not likely.

Thai girls will be more comfortable and confident when they are introduced to a farang by a Thai guy (a Thai guy the girl already knows and respects) and then it might be very easy for the farang to date her.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating - 8 Sizzling Tips To Make Your Profile For Asian Girls Standout! !

Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular !
We know one of the hardest part of creating your profile is describing yourself to others. Dating pearl.com gives you the freedom to define & express yourself so you can put your best foot forward. Following are some time tested nuggets that can assist you in creating a compelling & attention grabbing profile.
Honesty is the Best Policy
As the saying goes, honesty is the best policy. Honesty is taken seriously at Dating pearl.com and it's the single most important thing to remember when writing a great profile. It's much easier to write about yourself if you are honest about who you are. It prevents you from having to spin ways to best sell yourself or guess at what you think other people want to read.
A major part of being honest is not misleading people down the road. People will assume that what you write is true — and you don't want to set people up for a surprise later by stretching the truth in your profile. For example, if you hate mountain climbing, don't say you love it just to grab the eye of an outdoorsy type.
Give Some Thought Of What Sets You Apart.
How are you different? What gives you your unique character? If your friends were describing you, what would be the three things they would all say about you? These are good questions to ask yourself as you get ready to write your profile.
Put Your Negativity Aside
Often times, people start their ad off with, “I´m sick of … !’, “ I´m tired of…!’ or “ I hate Brunette…!’ etc. It´s advisable not to include this as the first thing that you want to express in your profile ad. It just gives the impression of too many unhealthy relationships in the past. Instead, try to be more positive & upbeat in your profile. Soon enough you will notice a leap in the response rate.
Stay Open & Be Conversational.
Leave formality at the door and write your profile like you are talking to a good friend. Of course, there are some things you might tell a good friend that you probably don't want to include in your profile. It's a good idea to avoid mentioning past relationships and exes, or discoursing on being lonely or desperate. Be optimistic!
Show How, Don't Tell.
The best profiles show, don't tell, who you are at your best. If you are known for being funny, try explaining how or why you are funny - such as, "I've been known to show up to a party in a wig", instead of "I have a good sense of humor." Paint a picture in their minds of the kind of person you are.
A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words
The importance of this point can´t be emphasized more. Your smile, the background that you're photographed in, what you're wearing; they all paint a picture of what you're truly like. And including a recent photo will get you 800% the attention.
Updating Your Profile Often.
Keep your profile fresh. Every now and then, go back to your profile and update it to let people know you're still out there.
Go Through Your Spelling & Grammar.
Check your profile for typos and spelling mistakes before you submit it. Show that you spent time thinking about them while writing your profile. Always proofread your ad & run it through a word processor, such as Microsoft Word so that you can have your spelling & grammar checked.
I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating – Asian Girls Online Dating For Dummies !

Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular !

Whether you have been dating for years, getting back in the game, or just starting out, you could always use a bit of dating advice. Not the kind you get from your mother, but rather the kind that actually might get you past the first date, on to the 2nd and perhaps on to a happily ever after.

So you have decided to date and you are thinking about the "online dating" thing? Well, why not. To be cliche' everyone is doing it! In today's action packed, hustle, bustle world, who had time or energy to meet the traditional ways. Online meeting has become a norm, and is gaining in acceptability.

Writing Your Profile - Many online dating services offer assistance in writing your profile, if you are not a good writer then this may be something you should consider. Before you sit down to write your profile, find out how others see you, so that you can more adequately describe yourself as you are seen.

You don't see yourself as others do - probably) The best way to do this is ask around. You don't have to tell anyone why - just ask for one word that describes your looks, work habits, home environment etc get a list and go from there. Chances are you will come closer to a good description of yourself that way than any other way.

To Post a Picture or Not To Post - That is the question Well are you photogenic? You know even if you aren't there has to be a picture somewhere of you that looks good. Find it!

Whoever said a picture is worth a thousand words knew what the were talking about. And let's face it - this is a shallow society - we are attracted by looks in addition to pleny of other things - but looks are definetly high on the list. Not putting up a picture leads to suspicion of whether you are attractive or not - what's wrong with you! Put it up there.

Free Online Dating Services, Trials, and Charges - You get what you pay for - most of the time. Most of the online dating services charge. It's a huge market - just doesn't seem like it when you are actually trying to find a date does it?

The best thing to do is find a trial service, or a service that allows you to wink or send eye contact or a smile to another party to let them know you are interested. So if you both just send that and then it goes nowhere you have to decide - are they worth the fee to join the site to find out more.

If you do decide to join, keep in mind that most of these sites won't let the other person respond without also having a membership. That does not mean however that you can't send them an alternate method of contacting you. There is nothing more frustrating than being contacted by someone you would like to write back to, but no way to do that unless you also join.

Is it worth the fees? Some site editors are not too bright either and you can sneak little ways into your profile that allow future interested parties a way to find you. Such as saying something like - "I have the same name where the little yellow man is" would tell someone that your username at AOL would be the same as your username on the profile and they might then contact you without you either one buying a membership.

If you choose to post on more than one site, try to spice each profile up a bit differently. No one wants to read the same thing twice, and what you might have missed out on saying in one profile may be the thing that catches someone's attention on another profile. Use different pictures too.

What to be Cautious of - Online meell fall down when you are sitting behind a computer screen and you can do or say or flirting has allowed us to move a bit faster than traditional dating. Your inhibitions at however you want and it's not as difficult as it is face to face.

What that usually leads to is assuming you know someone better than you normally would before you've ever had that first date - but beware - their inhibitions were down too and they may have come across a lot greater than they really are.

Do You Take Down Your Profile When You Meet Someone? Well - did they take down their profile? If they did, and you are serious about being exclusive, then you should take down your profile. (on all the sites you have it up on) But if they haven't and you aren't then leave it up. Think how many fish swimming around in the sea might nibble on your bait while you have it out there!

Perhaps getting online and flirting and maybe even meeting up with someone is the push you need to get out more and enjoy life. Maybe it leads to happily ever after. Whatever it leads to enjoy it and yourself!

Here's a trick:

I know how it is to be at a loss for words when you're sitting there trying to crank out a profile in one sitting. Here's a trick that really works. The key is to start the process with at least 30 minutes of brainstorming. Just write down anything you can think of. Then leave it for a while.

That should be enough to start the wheels turning. Subconsciously, you'll be working on it. In the following days, more ideas should come up. Make sure you get them on paper.

Meanwhile, you may also want to come back to it, flesh out what you've come up with, and see if anything else comes to mind. This should give you a lot more to work with. Once you've written it, give it another day and come back to it. You'll probably find things you wan to change. Don't be afraid to repeat this.

The thing is, more people are likely to see your profile when it's new. Most services will show you as new and as a result, you'll get maximum exposure as soon as your profile is live. So want to make sure you give it your best shot.

Like the saying goes, you never get another chance to make a first impression... sort of.
You can and should change your headline, profile, and /or picture periodically to freshen up your profile. That way, people who may have seen it before will be forced to give it a second chance.

This is a powerful trick that can be used to help you write anything.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating – Honesty Accepted - Deception Denied !

Asian girls Dating is becoming very popular !

We've all done it at one time or another, or will do it sometime in the future. Regardless of when you do it, just remember you will get caught eventually and when you do, you cannot bury your head in the sand.

Too bad there are not strict policies, punishable by law in association with the internet wherein something could be written and implemented along the lines of "Truth in Online Dating". Who am I kidding, people have lied from the beginning of time and will continue to do so until Hell freezes over and even when caught some will continue to do so at our expense. Bastards!

Remember the old video rental mantra "Be Kind, Rewind"? Some of you may be too young to remember that but the sentiment still applies. For this subject, lets use, oh I don't know, how about "You Lie, You Die", hmmmmm, maybe not, too blatant. Oh wait, I know, "Honesty Accepted, Deception Denied".

Anyway, the point here is to be honest in all you say and do. Have you ever stretched the truth or told an out and out blatant lie? Tell me how many more lies did you have to tell to cover your ass from the original lie? Life is too short to waste all your time and energy covering your ass. Do it right and do it honestly the first time.

So, you are asking yourself, what is this crazy woman's point? OK, OK, the point is, when you are creating a profile, be it just for your screen name or for an "Online Dating Site" be honest. Describe yourself as you see yourself, if you are 5'5" don't list that you are 5'10", if you weigh 210 don't list your weight as 135.

Be real, have you ever spent endless hours talking to someone and envisioned what they looked like based on the picture and physical description posted on their profile only to find the picture is 10 yrs old, they have gained 50 pounds and are 6 inches shorter than what they indicated.

It has happend to me, and I was pissed, aggravated and disappointed. And, yes, I have done it myself and when it came time to meet the person I felt really bad about the lies I had told and fessed up. We met anyway and in this instance we became very good friends, but, it doesn't always work out that way.

If you are going to share personal information, be very cautious, be generic, but honest. If you plan on meeting this person and who knows, maybe start a relationship, don't sabotage it with lies. A good relationship, romantic or friendship is based on trust and honesty.

Start off on the right foot, and maintain a certain mystery about yourself to pique their interest, remember any embellishments will be exposed, relationships destroyed and in most cases the trust is gone forever.

Simple advice......tell the truth no matter how bad it sounds, your honesty will be welcomed and very much appreciated not to mention the open doors that result from that same honesty. Honesty is sexy and appealing and lies, well, they are boring, unattractive and get you nowhere, but caught!

Those of you that are lying to someone right now, come clean, spill the beans, maybe you can be forgiven, maybe not, but you can start fresh from here.....the point of honesty and truth in Online Dating and every aspect of your life. It is much less complicated to tell the truth than it is to cover a lie.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating - Who Says Asian Girls Online Dating's Only For Losers?

Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular !
Until a good friend suggested that we try it. I had to admit, I was curious, but wasn’t online dating for hideous losers and people who had something to hide? Wasn’t it only for those who couldn’t get a date the ‘old fashioned’ way?
I let my friend talk me into browsing some pictures on one of the more popular dating sites. I had to say, there were some pretty decent looking men on there. Their profiles made them sound like fairly mentally stable human beings. I had to admit that the single thing was getting really tedious. I had done the bar scene (as we all have), had friends try to ‘hook me up’ with some other dateless, picky single person (though, why some of them figured they had the right to be picky, I have no idea), with no success.
Online dating, here I come. I figured “What do I have to lose?” At the absolute worst, I’d meet more of the same type of losers that I’d been meeting. At best, I’d meet someone that I was actually compatible with who could also relate to me.
I had another dilemma with regard to the dating thing. I had been divorced for about a year at the time, and I have 2 children. Now, I know that you ladies who are divorced with kids can completely relate to what I’m saying here. Finding a decent man is difficult enough, add to that the fact that I’m looking for a decent man whom I can trust to be around my children. Finding a man anywhere on this planet, that I wouldn’t mind having my son emulate, is like trying to find a pair of Manolos on sale at Sears.
Anyway, I signed up with my friend on one of the ‘bigger’ dating sites. I met one dude, who said in his profile that he was 5’10”, with an athletic build. He had an attractive face, he was divorced, and he had 3 children who were presently in his custody. He sent me an email. We corresponded via email for about 2 weeks, after which time, we decided to meet for lunch at a local restaurant.
He arrived at the restaurant earlier than I did. Early enough to have been already seated when I got there. He barely stood up to shake my hand upon saying ‘hello’, which I thought was a little weird, but whatever. We talked from lunch time until the hour turned into dinner time. The conversation was going so great, that we decided to stay for dinner, after which time, we decided to take in a movie. When the waitress brought the bill, he paid it and as we stood up to leave, I saw why he was already seated at the restaurant when I got there, and why he didn’t fully stand up to greet me. This dude was about 5’7” tall! Now, I’m 5’4”, and in the boots that I was wearing, I was nearly taller than he was! I was so cheezed that I immediately lost my taste for the movie, made up some excuse about not feeling well all of a sudden (it must have been the fish), and boogied on atta’ there.
On my way home, I thought, “Is this what online dating is? Dating loser after liar, never finding that ‘one’?” I’m not saying that this dude was a loser because he was short. The entire problem for me, exists in the fact that he LIED. I can’t stand liars. If he lied about something as obvious as his height, what else would he lie about?
I learned very quickly that when it comes to online dating, one has to be extremely specific about what one wants, and one has to stick to her guns. Not that some of those who read those specifications give a hoot anyway. I put in my profile that I wasn’t interested in dating anyone over 45, and I got mail from men well past that age on a regular basis.
I learned that I had to be assertive almost to the point of being aggressive when it came to dating online. I had to say what I meant, and mean what I said. As a result, I’m dating someone (8 months now) who meets every piece of the criteria that I set out to find in a man. He’s physically attractive (Yes, it DOES MATTER), and Lord help me, he’s as smart as a computer (brains makes me weak). He’s also an amazing person inside, and he gets along well with my children. We live at completely opposite ends of the city, and if it weren’t for bumping into each other online, I’m sure we would never have met.
I chose to think about online dating as follows; when I’m in a bar, and some loser tries out his lame pickup line on me, I have to respond to him in some manner, right? When I’m dating online, I don’t have to respond at all! I have more men to choose from than those in my immediate circle of friends and associates, and am able to choose from as far away as I want to.
If you’re thinking about doing the dating thing online, go for it! If you're smart, you have nothing to lose, and absolutely everything to gain.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating - Tips for Creating a Successful Personal Asian Girls Online Dating Profile ! 22 Tips !!!

Asian girls Dating is becoming very popular.

Your profile is the key to meeting your perfect match at online dating and personals services so it´s surprising that many profiles are mediocre at best. With a little extra time, thought and effort, and the help of these tips, you can make yours a winner and attract a large pool of admirers to take your pick from.

Asian girls Dating Tip 1 : Invent a distinctive username:

Your username (nickname) is the first hint at what kind of person you are. It needs to be original and memorable, while somehow summing you up - not easy in a dozen letters or so!
For ideas, think about your interests, background, location and personality. For instance, an outgoing person from Phoenix might choose PhoenixSparkler, an avid skier with a wild streak might be SnowTiger. Humor´s great (I recently spotted MissBehaving) but overly sentimental (LetMeBeTheOne), meaningless (Vyc2DX) or desperate sounding (SoLonelyInOhio) names are a turn off.

Asian girls dating Tip 2 : Give yourself time:

think of a name before sitting down to complete your profile, as well as a couple of backup options. It´s amazing how many “original’ names are in use already. Most services spit out alternatives but they´re usually unimaginative and full of numbers.

Asian girls dating Tip 3 : Write a compelling headline:

Your opening line, or headline, is like the first thing you see on an ad: it should compel people to read on and find out more about you. Don´t be apologetic about being there - “I don´t normally do this sort of thing’ - and don´t begin (as thousands do) with “My name´s Bob, I´m 25 and live in Boise.’

This isn´t compelling. It´s not even interesting. “Born in Boise, Heading for Barbados’ is more the thing. It´s intriguing without being confusing, and raises questions: is Bob a traveler, a dreamer or working for an international company? Only one way to find out – read on!
Again, it´s not easy. If you get stuck, a favorite line from a song, book or movie can say lot about you – who you like and/or what you believe in - and stands out to other people who love it too.

Asian girls Dating Tip 4 : Post at least one photo:

For 75% of online daters, the photo is the first thing they look for when browsing through profiles. Not surprisingly, profiles with photos get ten to fifteen times the response of those without. Including a photo is a must! But beware, some photos do more harm than good. Big offenders are photos that show you with someone else, or even worse, part of someone else. (It might not be your ex, or your ex´s body part, but people have no way of knowing.)

If you don´t have a suitable photo, get one taken, and keep it real - glamour shots could come back to haunt you. Think about asking a friend to pick out a photo that they think looks most like you. Make sure people don´t have to squint at the screen to see what you look like, and be sure to smile!

Asian girls Dating Tip 5 : Check the right boxes:

Most profiles have a hefty component of check boxes – age group, sex, and so on. It´s a basic thing but when researching sites I do it a lot myself: check the wrong boxes or forget to change them from a default setting that isn´t right for me. And I´m not alone. Believe it or not, a common mistake among online daters is choosing the wrong sex of their ideal partner. So, take care over these basic but important details.

Asian girls Dating Tip 6 : Check your grammar and spelling:

You might be the most intelligent person on the planet but if you rush your profile and don´t check your spelling and grammar you´re not going to come across well to anyone who values intelligence. You might like to prepare your freestyle entries using a program with spelling and grammar checkers, then paste them into your profile.

Asian girls Dating Tip 7 : Avoid clichés:

Unfortunately, a lot of people say the same thing in the same way as everyone else. It´s boring at best and unbelievable at worst. Can we really believe that so many people “exercise regularly and keep in good shape’? Also, use a thesaurus to replace well-worn words like “good’ and “nice’ with more interesting, meaningful alternatives that add spice and sparkle to your profile.

Asian girls Dating Tip 8 : Make your meaning clear:

Your spelling and grammar might be perfect but sometimes your words can convey a completely different meaning from what you intended. Give your profile a thorough reading to avoid potentially embarrassing or damaging misinterpretations!

Asian girls Dating Tip 9 : Stick to your own style:

Many online dating profiles include sections where you can express yourself in your own words. It´s a chance to make yourself more human and “real,’ and other members can pick up lots of interesting information about you – clues they might find appealing - from the way you express yourself. Don´t block the process by suddenly adopting a style and tone that isn´t really you.

Asian girls Dating Tip 10 : Focus on your unique qualities:
It´s our unique qualities that make us attractive - and to some, very attractive! When you have a chance to describe yourself, let these qualities shine. Skip the things that people take for granted (and have in common) and focus on the things that make you, “you.’
Perhaps you speak another language, have an unusual skill or interest, or something you feel passionately about. Small things count too. If you change your hair color every other day or have an addiction to triple hot chili sauce, say so. People who share or appreciate your unique qualities will tune right in and they make great conversation starters if they decide to make a move!

Asian girls Dating Tip 11 : Flatter yourself – it´s allowed!:

If you´re good at something or proud of yourself for something, go ahead and blow your own trumpet. Confidence (not to be confused with a raging ego!) is an attractive quality and there are plenty of ways to flatter yourself while sounding modest: “My friends say I´m…’ or, “If I had to describe one thing about myself that I like…’

Asian girls Dating Tip 12 : Be honest:

Many people can´t resist the urge to be less than completely honest when writing their online personals profile. Women tend to lie about their appearance and men about their status and physical prowess. There´s really no need. Online dating and personals services have thousands if not millions of members. You´ve got a great chance of meeting someone who´s attracted to the real you, warts and all. Of course, there´s no need to tell your darkest secrets – just keep it real. You´ll be able to pursue relationships without having to worry about all the lies you´ve spun. Honesty is an attractive trait.

Asian girls Dating Tip 13 : Be passionate about your passions:

If you have a hobby or interest that you´re absolutely passionate about, that takes up a lot of your time and energy, go ahead and rave about it. It´s better that people know up front how important it is to you, and fellow fanatics will tune right in!

Asian girls Dating Tip 14 : Be careful with humor:

Humor´s great but a super-dry or tongue-in-cheek sense of humor may not work well in writing. People don´t know you and can´t see the twinkle in your eye. You´ll have ample opportunity to display your brand of wit when you´re communicating one-on-one with other members.

Asian girls Dating Tip 15 : Say it with feeling:

Too many profiles read like a job application with flat phrases like, “I enjoy skiing, cooking and photography’ which don´t really tell us much. Add emotions, thoughts and feelings into the mix. The idea is to showcase your personality and make a connection on an emotional level.

Asian girls Dating Tip 16 : Be positive:

Our bugbears say something about the type of person we are but keep them to a minimum in your profile or they´ll say something bad! Focus on the things that make you feel good and you'll come across as a fun date.

Asian girls Dating Tip 17 : Don´t dwell on past relationships:

Too much talk of past relationships is a sure way to scare off potential dates. It doesn´t show much commitment to moving along in life with someone new. However, some services touch on the subject in their profiles in which case you can give it a more interesting, positive twist by talking in general terms about lessons learned, where you are today and what your hopes are for future relationships.

Asian girls Dating Tip 18 : Describe your ideal match in your own words:

If you have an opportunity to describe the type of person you´re looking to meet in your own words, use it. If someone reads your profile and likes you, they´ll know right away whether or not they´re a likely candidate for your affections. On the other hand, don´t be too picky or demanding! One idea is to limit yourself to the three or four attributes that you value most in a partner and perhaps one big turn off (you want to keep it positive overall).

Asian girls Dating Tip 19 : Describe the kind of dates you enjoy:

Make it easy for people to ask you on a date by giving them an idea of the kind of dates you enjoy. For instance, “I like a relaxing atmosphere where you can chat and get to know someone,’ or, “Doing something new and exciting together is a great way to get to know someone.’

Asian girls Dating Tip 20 : Promote yourself as a great date:

When someone likes what they read in your profile, they´ll probably wonder what kind of date you´d make. In other words, you seem interesting and attractive but would you be the date from hell? Put this question to rest with upfront information that paints a great picture of what it would be like to date you. For instance, perhaps you´re a good listener who likes a quiet, relaxing atmosphere where you can talk and get to know someone, or a sociable energetic type who thinks that doing something new and exciting together is the best way to get to know someone.

When your admirers know you´re on the same page in terms of dating style, they´re more likely to take the next step and ask you out, or at least to get to know you better, confident you´ll be a great date. And if your dating styles are completely out of tune, at least you´ve avoided finding it out the hard way - on that date from hell.

Asian girls Dating Tip 21 : Create a Master Profile:

Save all your profile information and entries in a master file so you don´t have to start from scratch if you´re planning on using more than one service. Profiles vary considerably from service to service but many parts will be similar.

Asian girls Dating Tip 22 : Make Changes:

Last but not least, don´t forget that your profile isn´t written in stone! It´s fast and easy to make any changes you like, so don´t fret too much about perfection!

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Online Dating Makes Searching For Asian Girls Fun !

Asian girls dating is becoming very popular.
Some have said that online dating is an impersonal relationship. These people just don´t know what they are talking about. In fact, online dating is really the best way to start a dating relationship. And, today, many people are finding the person of their dreams on the internet. And, you have nothing to lose. Online dating even with a monthly fee is probably much cheaper than finding a partner the old fashion way.
Have you ever gone on a blind date and wished you were somewhere else? I have. The friends that tried to fix you up meant well. But, usually they try too hard because they feel you need a date since they don´t see you socializing with many people and they have to fix you up with anyone they might think is somewhat compatible with you. In other words they just want you to go out and have fun and not sulk at home. It will make them feel better knowing that you have someone to be happy with. So, they put you together with what they think is another lonely human being and hope that you will both have a great time.
Many times the date just doesn´t work. You both just don´t hit it off. Either the politics doesn´t work, or each of your ideas of what fun means doesn´t work. There are so many reasons why the date fails. And, really it´s no ones fault except your friend that got you involved with this person in the first place.
The problem is that while you are on this date you are the most uncomfortable human being you have ever known. And, for the most part you try to be nice if you can. You just want this thing to finish so you can go home and watch some more TV and then just go to bed.
Why go thru all that pain when you can log onto your favorite online dating site and browse thru as many personal ads as you like. And, if you desire, you can even look as long as you want for the person you might want to date in your gym clothes, pajamas or even your underwear!
And, when you see someone you like, then contact them. Send them a brief e-mail and introduce yourself. Be honest. Be sincere. Be funny. If, you see more then one prospect send two or even three e-mails. Get to know each one of your prospective dates a little thru the internet. See if you have any common interests. Get a phone number of the ones you want to talk to. You know the rest.
The online dating part just takes the initial search for a dating partner and makes finding a prospective date a lot easier for many people. Don´t be afraid to try online dating. Don´t think this is not how to do it because your parents didn´t date this way. Don´t worry that initially you think that it feels weird to find a date on the internet. Today, everyone is doing it and a lot of people are having fun searching for a partner with online dating.
And, the best reason to try online dating is that so many people are happy because they have found their perfect partner sooner then they had thought possible.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to go to my favourite pages :

Homepage Asian Girls Dating,

Asian Adult Dating,

Thai Girls

Best regards

Dao Jones

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

Asian Girls Online Dating, Why Not?

Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular amongst western men.

So, you're looking to meet that "special someone". You have tried the bars, blind dates, churches, grocery stores, etc, all with little or no success. What have you got to lose by trying one, or even a few, of the many different Asian online singles services?

Absolutely nothing!

I would encourage anyone to spend a little time on their computer and explore the possibilities available with Asian online dating. For a low cost, convenient, private avenue for searching for Asian girls, online dating can be a very rewarding and interesting experience.

Asian Online services typically charge a monthly subscription fee around $20 - $30 for a "Standard" package or program.

These fees can increase, as you add more of the features offered through the service, often times enhancing your membership.

Some services even offer their standard features FREE! Either way, it is a relatively low investment compared to the thousands of dollars, and long term memberships, typically charged by the traditional dating services.

Don't get me wrong, although traditional dating services and matchmakers can be quite expensive, many people have enjoyed great successes through their memberships and you may eventually want to try one as well.

But to start, go cheap, go convenient, go online!

There are some Asian online dating sites that also do compatibility testing and personality profiling. These features help members find other quality singles who are similar to themselves and complement their lifestyle.

The testing and profiling also helps determine what qualities and characteristics one should look for in a mate. This might seem a bit confusing and overwhelming, but it is actually quite easy. Most sites have online help should you have any questions or need assistance. Some sites will even offer suggestions on possible matches.

Typically, no personal information is disclosed between members until both parties agree. All communication can be done through the online website. So, your e-mail, address, phone number, etc., is all get kept private and secure.

One of the nicest features of online dating is the ability to work on your membership in the comfort and privacy of your own home. Whether you are a morning or an evening person, there are no restricting office hours. You can work on your membership when you want, from any location with a computer, for as long as you want. You are in complete control.

Asian Online dating has come a long way, and many foreign men have benefited and met their Asian girls through the internet. But, do your homework. Research and compare the different Asian sites.

Read and understand the membership agreements. Do searches for positive, and negative, information on the sites you are considering.

The Singles/Dating business is very popular and competitive in Asia, so you need to educate yourself. Take your time, investigate your options, and online dating can be a very exciting, enjoyable, and rewarding experience. Who knows? You might even meet Mrs. Right.

So, why not?

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Online Dating - The Huge Advantages !

More and more Asian girls are looking for a foreign men through online dating.
Here is the story of Amonrat from Thailand.

Amonrat is 38 and works for a prestigious law firm in Thailand. Her dating track record since the tragic and premature death of her husband five years ago has been poor. Although the majority of Amonrat´s work colleagues are male, she says, “The majority of them are married and even if they were available, I would not be interested.

I also don´t think I could cope with having a relationship with someone involved in the legal sector. I imagine that we would find it very hard to leave our work behind. Socially, where does one go to meet likeminded men who are genuinely interested in a relationship as opposed to a one-night stand?”

Amonrat went onto explain that she met her late husband whilst at university in Bangkok and, during the many contented years of her marriage, she had a fairly blinkered view of Asian dating agencies. “I viewed them with suspicion, assuming that they were frequented by people who either had major personality flaws, or else had some ulterior seedy motive.

I never once stopped to think about how difficult it is in this day and age to meet suitable companions in mainstream environments. Of course, about two years after Wissarot´s death when I began thinking that I didn´t want to spend the rest of my life alone, I realised that meeting other people was not that easy. Clubs and pubs really didn´t appeal to me. I tried going with friends to wine bars, but found that I was largely on the receiving end of unwanted attention from thai men in whom I had no interest. It was also obvious that the majority of them were just after a quick thrill.”

Amonrat quickly began to view Asian dating agencies as an attractive option, but didn´t really like the idea of being computer-matched with someone. After all, that removed personal choice and she made it clear that she was not the sort of person who liked having choices made for her! Her decision to try Asian online dating as an alternative was made whilst awaiting a dental appointment.

“In the waiting room, I came across an article on Asian online dating as I was idly perusing the obligatory stack of well-thumbed thai women´s magazines. The article must have been particularly well written, because I was instantly sold on the idea.

The concept of being able to peruse a database of potential suitors whilst still in my dressing gown was extremely appealing. At least I knew that when I did dress up, it would be because I actually had a date, rather than putting a huge effort into preparing for a night cruising around social clubs, with no guarantee that I was going to meet someone.

After my appointment, I couldn´t wait to get home and begin checking out some of the sites that were recommended.”

Amonrat spent a long time researching the plethora of Asian online dating sites before she found one that she felt catered for her needs, which of course included a level of security.

“I wasn´t particularly drawn to totally free sites, because I felt that they were more likely to attract members who weren´t particularly serious about the process, or whose intentions weren´t entirely honourable.

I was more interested in sites that allowed you to peruse profiles, but which required you to pay for full membership before allowing you to contact other members.

That way, I knew that those I contacted were probably more serious about meeting someone special and not just after a quick fling. I wanted to sign up with an Asian dating site where I felt totally in control and also secure in the knowledge that none of my personal contact details would be divulged to anyone unless I specifically chose to give out this information.

I was also more impressed by Asian dating sites that offered a range of relationship advice and articles.”

“At first I felt rather embarrassed admitting to even my closest friends that I had chosen this route, but when I did, I was amazed at how many of them had also considered doing the same thing. One of my friends, whom I assumed had met her foreign husband at the gym, admitted that she had actually met him via an online message forum.

Although this wasn´t the same as an Asian dating agency, essentially it was no different. She had found someone with whom she shared common interests, but whom she had not previously met face-to-face and that is exactly how I began broadening my male social circle, except via a dedicated relationship facility.”

Amonrat says that she found the search process “exhilarating”.
“It was like being an invisible fly on the wall in a room full of interesting foreign men from all walks of life with their personal profiles attached to them I could look, analyse and weigh up the options in a way that would be impossible if all those men were in one room.

The best part was the convenience and the fact that it didn´t matter one iota what I looked like or how I behaved!”

“I also liked the idea of initially being able to build the foundations of a relationship on friendship and mutual interests, before actually meeting someone and being blinded by lust, which of course never lasts with the same intensity as at the beginning of a relationship!”

Has Amonrat met her match?
“Very possibly”, she laughs. “I´ve had tremendous fun and I´d like to say that I believe I have found a relationship with future potential, but you´ll just have to wait and see......!!”

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Online Dating - Confidence Booster

Asian Girls Dating is becoming very popular.

Most of us have different levels of confidence. I´m sure you have met a variety of confident types. I´m just as sure, that all of us have had our own confidence shaken once or twice. I know I have.

In relationships most of us have different degrees of confidence. There were times I felt like I could do no wrong and other times I couldn´t do anything right. The ups and downs of relationships are still a mystery to me.

I don´t have all the answers, but most of us have in common some the same feelings: the hope when you see someone you can´t take your eyes off of; the anticipation of being on a first date; the moment when you kiss; the bliss of love; and also: the slap when someone says no; the hopelessness when someone walks away, the emptiness when someone you love cheats on you and so on. We all have been their.

What happens when the worse has happen to you. I can give you a glimpse of the male´s perspective. You are in love. She is everything you could want. She´s beautiful, sexy, and makes you feel alive. You can´t wait to be with her or near her.

You are on top of the world and life couldn´t be better. Then she walks away. No amount of begging will bring her back. The signs of her leaving were probably there, but you were too in love to see them. You cry, you drink, cry some more and the emptiness won´t go away. You are lost.

Then there is the guy who drinks a case a beer, cries for a night, says the hell with it then parties the next night. This over exuberant soul creates such a whirlwind he leaves himself no time to grieve or to contemplate his state of loss. When he crashes, his recovery is usually a tough road.

For me, the old adage that time heals, had value. I had no desire to go clubbing. I was lonely, still grieving and didn´t have the confidence to get back in to the dating world again. As time went on, I found a comfortable, yet boring routine.

I wanted to date again, but the thought of it would give me flash backs of unpleasant moments. Sigh, loneliness was becoming my friend.

Asian Online dating was something I heard about and decided to check it out. I was tired of watching reruns on tv. It didn´t take long to search out the many Asian dating sites available on the net. I searched, researched, and joined.

I was slowly and comfortably getting involved again. I could sit at home in my sweats, converse with Asian girls online, and not have to face a crowd in a smoky bar room if a lady said “no’. Yet, the no´s were rare online.

This was not a face to face ritual, but me on my keyboard and the Asian girl on her keyboard that gave us both the needed space to get acquainted. It was fun, relaxing and a confidence booster. Yes, I´ll say it again, a confidence booster.

How can Asian online dating boost your confidence versus traditional dating? It has to do with vulnerability. Think about it. If you just lost your confidence, would you rather face a lady in a crowd of others, or at home while using MSN chat or email.

After a huge letdown, most of us struggle with the thought of going out in the harsh dating world were appearance is premium versus the power of words and feelings you converse online. Whatever your state of mind may be at that moment, you can find another person online feeling as you do. That's hard to find in a smoky bar room under the influence of alcohol.

Eventually my confidence did return to an adequate level to venture out to the dance clubs. I had Asian online dating to thank for that. For a while, I was playing in both worlds and saw some stark difference in what was real and what was not. Both have their pitfalls, but eventually I realized that the typical dating world had many more masks and traps that was not present in the Asian online world.

That´s another article. For now, I just want to say if you have lost your confidence because of a relationship disaster, give your self time to heal and see if you can find yourself again by joining a good Asian online dating site.

I guarantee you will find your confidence again and if you are lucky, like me, you will find the love of your love.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating. Speed Dating Online and Off.

Asian girls dating is becoming very popular.
In an effort to cut down the time between meeting and mating to as close to zero as possible, up has popped Speed Dating!
For the uninitiated, speed dating happens when groups of singles meet together at a predetermined location. In an organized fashion, these folks talk to each other individually for under ten minutes (usually six to eight) per person, then switch to the next one in line. Next, each single rates interest (or no interest) in pursuing each contact. Afterwards, the organizers put the parties who indicated mutual interest in touch with each other, with what happens next up to the individuals concerned. Sort of like an adult version of Musical Chairs.
Offered by various businesses like HurryDate.com, and Pre-Dating.com, even the online dating veteran Match.com is jumping into the fray. Match.com sponsors live, face-to-face events in various cities.
But Match.com also has a completely online version that does not even require that you leave home -- all you need is a computer online and another phone line or cell phone to use at the same time. After having a chance to look at the other's profile and photo, the Match.com answer to supersonic speed puts you on the phone with one guy or gal after another -- for an even shorter four minutes! Then, up comes the form, and just indicate your choice: "Yes, no, or maybe."
Like most face to face events that I hear about (and I include the Match.com computer-based speed dating in this category), it sounds as if women usually outnumber men. Why? Well, women may just be more comfortable in these more social, on-the-spot sort of events. If you are not quick with words or good handling things on your feet, you'd be at a disadvantage. Guys report feeling trapped and uncomfortable. And there can be an air of competition that could make men antsy, not wanting to participate in something where they could lose or feel foolish.
There's a message here for guys: Given the ratios, these kind of events would be great places for you to try. And they would provide great practice in mastering a social patter that would be useful in other situations.
The advantages to both men and women? Well, clearly, speed. And practice. And to "get your feet wet" and get a sense that there is plenty of choice out there. Who knows? Maybe you'll get lucky!
The disadvantages? With face-to-face as well as online speed dating, you've got next to no screening except signing up / paying up / showing up. So you find a range of people, likely most of whom will not be even a passable fit for you.
With regular online dating, at least you get to screen to your heart's content in total privacy, before making even one direct contact. You get to sift out potentials who are clearly wrong for you.
With speed dating events, what you see is what you get. As one woman reported, "When you see all those plaid jackets and missing teeth, it can be pretty depressing."
Think about it: How fast do we really want to do this? After all, this is a life-partner search. What if the perfect guy or lady for you does not show him or herself the best in four to eight minutes?
Internet dating has already made the meeting process more efficient than we have ever known before. If we figure out many more ways to cut the time down, we'll be saying "no" before any contact at all. That sounds suspiciously like staying home and doing nothing! Fast Can We Do It? Speed Dating Online and Off"

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Dating. What Makes Online Dating So Different?

The concept of finding Asian girls as life partners with the help of the Internet is a fairly recent concept when compared with the history of man kind as such. Of course the internet and computers have influenced man´s life so much that it is no surprise that in the matters of finding a suitable partner too, the Internet has made its presence felt.

Online dating is, to put is very simply or flatly, finding a partner with the help of a machine namely the computer via the Internet. That itself makes the idea and the process a very novel one indeed, Thousands of Asian girls have been successful in finding suitable partners by the means of Online dating.

Everything that applies to the Internet, applies to Online dating as well. The Internet as we know allows for unlimited possibilities in communication, and it is this feature that has proved to be at the same time the biggest boon, as well as bane for Online dating.

People can start from scratch and get to know everything about each other before the actual meeting takes place. Tastes and preferences, likes and dislikes, interests and obsessions can be discussed on a one to one basis so that when the meeting actually takes place these two people are not in the least strangers to each other. Wonderful, isn´t it?

But at the same time this possibility for unlimited communication leaves a lot of space for guile as well. The human race is endowed with a remarkable ability to use, misuse and abuse the same thing. And naturally,Asian Online dating too has been and is still being used for vile purposes.

An Asian girl who is misusing this facility may either be a practical joker or may be someone with more devious intentions who is out to get some victims. It is because of this reason that a little bit of home work is good before you actually hit the road.

The first tip I would like to give you is NOT to go straight away into a Asian singles´ chat room and try to find Asian girls who would interest you. All of us know that most of such chat rooms are virtually flooded with Asian girls who have only one thing on their mind - sex. So, no matter what you ask for, it always ends up in that and the purpose is defeated. You will never get an Asian girl who kind of matches your interests and tastes.

You have to be on your guard all the time and keep constantly reminding your self that the Asian girl you are chatting with is, after all a stranger and a goodness-knows-what. The best thing that you could do is avoid instant intimacy altogether.

It doesn´t really matter if the Asian girl finds you cold or reserved, you can easily solve that by telling the girl that it takes sometime for you to become comfortable with a person. That in fact is a good quality because it is as good as saying, “Well, I´m sorry I´m not the loose kind who plays around.’

4 Ways To Tell If an Asian girl Is Lying

As discussed earlier, we are not going to resort to Asian singles´ chat rooms dedicated specifically to Asian online dating. Instead we will be in chat rooms of specific interest. So one very effective way of finding out if an Asian girl is lying would be to ask the girl very pointed questions about the area of interest. If the Asian girl fumbles or gives vague answers then you do not have to waste your time on such a person.

Another thing that you could do is that from the moment you first make contact with Asian girls, jot down whatever details the Asian girls chooses to reveal to you and in subsequent encounters nonchalantly question the Asian girls about the details, if there is a contradiction in the two details then you can be as sure as pat that the girl is lying.

Ask the Asian girls seemingly general questions but which in fact should have a very definite purpose, for example ask the Asian girls what she is looking for in such a relationship. Note down the answer. After two or three encounters again repeat the question and see whether the two answers match.

You could try pretending that you have chatted with the Asian girl before and innocently ask the girl if she is such and such person (make something up) and try offering compliments to the Asian girl like, “I really enjoyed chatting with you the other day. You were perfectly charming…’ and so on. If the girl falls for cheap flattery like this, then obviously she makes it a hobby to chat with people under various identities.

And so the chatting goes on until the Asian girl really grows on you. When you feel that you can really trust the girl, you may try giving the girl your telephone number. Remember that this too is a giant leap towards building a relationship so it´s better that you be sure than sorry.

The safest thing you can do about telephone numbers is to mutually exchange it preferably at the same time, so that neither party is at a disadvantage. It´s really no big deal, you can afford to tell the Asian girl that you are just being wary, the girl will understand. If she does not, then there is a good chance that she will not understand a lot of other things as well. In that case, dump the girl.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as the special characteristics of Asian women.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

Asian Girls Online Dating. Great tips !

Asian girls are in high demand by foreign men. Thousands of couples get connected through the internet.

If the Internet is better than sliced bread, meeting Asian girls online is sliced bread with butter and marmalade (or Nutella, if you prefer!). It´s convenient, time-saving, levels the play field for introverts (actually it gives them the edge), lets you avoid the bar scene, extends your reach,and it works.

I coach men looking for Asian girls, I´ve used Asian Internet dating sites successfully myself, and I research constantly to see which way the wind is blowing.

The wind is approaching hurricane force and it´s headed right toward your part of the world. There are more women looking online than men, as opposed to real life; there are more Asian girls joining all the time as the word gets out; and there are more Asian girls finding suitable partners through this vehicle.

Here are some things to keep in mind:

Asian Girls Dating Tip 1. Know what kind of relationship you´re looking for. Some of the Asian dating sites will give you a chance to specify, and all will give you a chance to talk later, if not sooner. Most feature the infamous “dating profile.” Since the Internet offers plenty of avenues for porn, most people on the legitimate Asian dating sites are looking for relationships. Specify. Long-term commitment, marriage a possibility, companionship and maybe more, and “I don´t know” and “Let´s see what happens,” are all legitimate responses.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 2. Be honest. If you´re not, you´re wasting your own time most of all, because you´ll be found out. You´re also spreading bad karma. Supposedly over 50% of people online lie about their age 5 years in either direction. If you have a problem with your age, income, appearance, education, etc., fix them, or fix your head. It´s relative, so focus on what you consider your good points. You can count on the fact that whatever you have to offer, an Asian girl is looking for.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 3. Avoid signs of desperation. The dream date, of course, would come on like James Bond, cool, confident, suave and sophisticated, with an air of mystery. Desperate people move too fast, say too much, and ask for too little. A man who´s “any” for all categories age, income, ethnic background, religion, children, etc. isn´t looking for a partner, he´s looking for a warm body. Pace your interactions to one or two emails a day, 10-15 min. IM sessions. Keep yourself under control. “Spilling” isn´t attractive. No need to write your life story the first time. That´s a turn off. Keep it light. Save something for next time.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 4. Let someone else deal with the walking wounded. If an Asian girl starts off talking about her traumatic past experiences, or specifies things like “No addicts, no liars, no wife-beaters, no bankruptcy, no adulterers, no borderlines,no hate-mongers,” etc., the Asian girl is showing you she´s not ready to date. I have compassion for these folks; so do you. Most of them will be fine with time and maybe you were thereafter your divorce or breakup. But I get paid to coach them to a better place, while you´re looking for a viable date right now, and a person with that kind of baggage has no business being in a relationship.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 5. Be selective. A writer on one male advice website claims his great profile got him 56 Asian girls respondents last month. Men lie in the area of their prowess, but however many responses you get, be selective. You don´t have to answer them all. If Asian girls are really interested in you AND NOT DESPERATE, they´ll wait. Don´t have so many going at one time that you confuse the Asian girls, because you´ll confuse yourself. If the Asian girl you´re corresponding with gets your details mixed up, move on, unless you want to be just another pretty email in the inbox.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 6. Give careful consideration to the area of sexual talk. Everyone recommends the other sex bring it up first. It doesn´t matter as long as it´s done tastefully.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 7. Who initiates? It doesn´t matter who “winks” or writes first, suggests the phone call, or asks for the date, because you´ll find your personality type and there´s a pot for every lid.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 8. Rely on your intuition. Use your emotional intelligence! If it´s too good to be true, it is. One sign of an ambivalent Asian girl (which you do NOT want) is an Asian girl who comes on too strong at the beginning. If something gives you the creeps, get away. If for any reason you don´t feel comfortable giving personal information like your home email or street address, don´t do it. Better safe than sorry, and there´s no need to rush.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 9. Your profile matters. Get some professional help and feedback from a friend or two. Read the profiles of people of your same sex so you can see what the competition´s doing.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 10.Your photograph matters more. Any professional photographer can help you out. It´s worth it. Nobody looks like their photograph, but you don´t want to eliminate Asian girls because you have such a bad one. And please, don´t be so crude, guys, as to put a photograph on there of you with your last honey. (Could I have made that up?)

Asian Girls Dating Tip 11. Online relationships start in writing, and it´s easy to share what´s going on. Read the writing tips on my web site. You can get advice as to what to say, how to proceed, what to look for, so you look like a pro, not an amateur. It shortens the learning curve.

Asian Girls Dating Tip 12. Do us all a favor and don´t ask “Why are Asian girls looking online?” You are, aren´t you? Maybe you live in a remote location, or don´t have time to run around at night, or prefer a slow introduction, or want to shop nationally. There are some super neat Asian girls looking online including me, my sister, my friends, my last boyfriend, and you! Have fun, and good luck!

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.
A unique Asian dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as the special characteristics of Asian girls.


If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

What makes Thai girls so attractive and why do Thai girls like Western men ?

What makes Thai girls so attractive ?

Thai girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. Thai girls are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Thai girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Thai women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Thai culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Thai girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Thai women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Thai women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Thai girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Thai girls like Western men ?

Thai girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

For example, the deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in Thailand. In Thai culture, Thai women are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Thai girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in Thailand, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Thai women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com

A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Thai girls click here to read about the

Culture of Thai girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Thai woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

What makes Korean girls so attractive and why do Korean girls like Western men ?

What makes Korean girls so attractive ?

Korean girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. Korean girls are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Korean girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Korean women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Korean culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Korean girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Korean women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Korean women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Korean girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Korean women like Western men ?

Korean girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

For example, the deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in Korea. In Korean culture, Korean women are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Korean girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in Korea, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Korean women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.

A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Korean girls click here to read about the

Culture of Korean girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Korean woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

What makes Chinese girls so attractive and why do Chinese girls like Western men ?

What makes Chinese girls so attractive ?

Chinese girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. Chinese girls are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Chinese girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Chinese women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Chinese culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Chinese girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Chinese women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Chinese women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Chinese girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Chinese women like Western men ?

Chinese girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

For example, the deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in China. In Chinese culture, Chinese women are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Chinese girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in China, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Chinese women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.

A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Chinese girls click here to read about the

Culture of Chinese girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Chinese woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

What makes Vietnamese girls so attractive and why do Vietnamese girls like Western men ?

What makes Vietnamese girls so attractive ?

Vietnamese girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. Vietnamese girls are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Vietnamese girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Vietnamese women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Vietnamese culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Vietnamese girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Vietnamese women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Vietnamese women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Vietnamese girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Vietnamese women like Western men ?

Vietnamese girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

For example, the deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in Vietnam. In Vietnamese culture, Vietnamese women are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Vietnamese girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in Vietnam, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Vietnamese women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.

A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Vietnamese girls click here to read about the

Culture of Vietnamese girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Vietnamese woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

What makes Japanese girls so attractive and why do Japanese girls like Western men ?

What makes Japanese girls so attractive ?

Japanese girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. Japanese girls are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Japanese girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Japanese women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Japanese culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Japanese girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Japanese women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Japanese women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Japanese girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Japanese women like Western men ?

Japanese girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

For example, the deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in Japan. In Japanese culture, Japanese women are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Japanese girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in Japan, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Japanese women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.

A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Japanese girls click here to read about the

Culture of Japanese girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Japanese woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

What makes Filipino girls so attractive and why do Filipino girls like Western men ?

What makes Filipino girls so attractive ?

Filipino girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. Filipino girls are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Filipino girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Filipino women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Filipino culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Filipino girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Filipino women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Filipino women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Filipino girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Filipino women like Western men ?

Filipino girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

For example, the deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in the Philippines. In Filipino culture, Filipino women are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Filipino girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in the Philippines, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Filipino women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally.

I'm Dao Jones from Thailand, founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com.

A unique dating site with lots of information about the cultural and marriage customs, as well as specific characteristics of Asian women.

If you want to know more about Filipino girls click here to read about the

Culture of Filipino girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Filipino woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones

Tuesday, October 04, 2005

What makes Asian Girls so attractive and why do Asian girls like Western men ?

What makes Asian Girls so attractive ?

Asian girls have many qualities ensuring that they are constantly in demand. They are typically very attractive physically - very feminine, petite and slender with delicate features and innate grace.

Asian girls are gentle and polite. A typical Asian upbringing engenders its women with the importance of manners and respect for others.

Asian women are charming and attentive to their partner. The institution of marriage is valued very highly in Asian culture and it is seen as a commitment to be undertaken with the utmost seriousness.

Asian girls are highly conscious of the paramount significance of family. In essence, Asian women have grown up respecting traditions that have existed in their homelands for thousands of years, of which marriage and family are an indispensable part.

Asian women are easily adaptable to new cultures. The friendliness and politeness of Asian girls ensures that they quickly make new friends wherever they go.


Why do Asian girls like Western men ?

Asian girls are very familiar with the many advantages of Western men and value the virtues with which they are associated.

The deference, consideration and chivalry, which can not always be found in their male counterparts in their Asian countries. In Asian culture, Asian girls are seen as being secondary and indeed subservient to their husbands, rather than interacting on the same level as them.

The politeness and respect that Asian girls have been raised to act with as second nature is not reciprocated in their Asian countries, whereas Western men will return it many times over.

Asian women advertising themselves as mail order brides have an inherent desire to enter into marriage and family life and understand that Western men can offer the stability, both economically and emotionally that are essential parts thereof wisdom, maturity and dependability that comes with age rather than seeing it as a negative which is the perception in the West.

If you want to know more about Asian girls click here to read more about the

Culture of Asian girls,

their marriage customs,

or to meet a real Asian woman online.

Best regards

Dao Jones